"She jumps up and down, demanding to be picked up.
You snuggle her close while the other children grab at your skirt,
demanding the same attention. As the dinner bells rings you gather them
up and move with them into the home. They all sit down as you pass out
plates of food and water and bow your head in thanks. She looks up at
you with gleaming eyes and smiles as she shovels food into her mouth and
dribbles water down her front.
And you would never know.
Never
know that there was a little symbol that changed her life. That that
symbol, written in her profile, brought her chances of being adopted
down dramatically. That that symbol makes people avoid her. Nervously
offer hugs. Push away her kisses. Freak out at the sight of her blood.
+
HIV +
That’s all it takes. One symbol. And her life is changed.
What
if we didn’t tell you? What if we treated her like everyone else and
you never knew the difference? You would hug her. You would kiss her.
You would put Band-Aids on her scrapes. You wouldn’t fear. You would
love her freely.
And maybe… just maybe… you’d consider making her your daughter.
The
thing is- you’re confused. That + sign doesn’t make her unadoptable. It
doesn’t even necessarily make her sick. HIV has never been spread in a
household environment. You can’t get it from hugging and kissing and
putting on band aids. It’s easier to manage than diabetes.
She’s
not stuck in that orphanage because she’s HIV+. She’s stuck in that
orphanage because we are misinformed. Because we don’t know.
Today
is world AIDS day. Take the time to KNOW and LEARN. And maybe…just
maybe… take a step to help children like her out of orphanages. Take a
step to reach out to someone branded with that symbol. Take a step to
speak out for the people all over the world fighting this stigma. Take a
step to love them like Jesus."
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